The Love Bite: Alien
Orchestrated Human Bonding Dramas
The Love Bite: Alien Orchestrated Human Bonding Dramas
By Eve Frances
Lorgen, M.A. firstname.lastname@example.org
Bud Hopkin's famous Brooklyn Bridge UFO
Abduction case brought to light a rarely discussed phenomena he described
as alien directed, human bonding experiments. Mr. Hopkins recent book,
Witnessed recounts the dramatic story of Linda Cortile's UFO abduction in
1989 from an apartment window in Manhattan, USA. Three men witnessed the
extraordinary event, one of whom was "Richard", whom Linda
Cortile had previously met in her alien encounters as a child and young
adult. The mutually shared abductions and dream scenarios that took place
between Linda and Richard were described as alien orchestrated bonding
According to Hopkins, the bonding
exercises that Linda and Richard experienced are not unique to the
abductee population. Other abductees have come forward to describe similar
experiences. It goes something like this: An abductee meets another
abductee during one or more alien abductions or in very vivid dreams. The
couple may interact on a verbal or physical level to initiate the bonding
process. This can occur several times until a bonding occurs. The nature
of the bonding exercises seems to be tailor-made to the individual.
The bonding interactions may or may not be recalled by either partner.
Often, only one partner will remember the experience, while the other has
no memory or only a vague recall. But when both partners meet in real
life, there is an instant sense of recognition and the couple may fall in
love. There are variations to the pattern and sequence of events , but in
most cases one partner falls in love more than the other-and is left
The relationship between the two bonded individuals is such that both
persons are magnetically attracted to one another, often in unlikely
situations. The love relationship set-up may include a number of bizarre
synchronicities, vivid dreams, and pre-bonding exercises during alien
encounters. The orchestrated experiences are often intimate and sexual,
such that one or the other develops an intense chemistry and love
obsession with the targeted partner. Oftentimes, either abductee is
married to or has an existing relationship with another mate. It makes no
The emotional, passionate and even telepathic connection between the
bonded pair is unlike normal love relationships. (Whatever normal is,
anyway.) Some have described it as the most phenomenal love imaginable, to
the point of total spiritual immersion or indwelling with their
"beloved." A match made in heaven. Then the inevitable happens.
It's absolutely devastating. The targeted love partner becomes
"switched off" and the love-struck partner becomes painfully
unrequited. The chosen partner usually has an initial love attraction (or
friendship) for the other, yet loses interest, often right after an alien
abduction or dream -like encounter. If one or the other abductees has a
good recall of their dreams and alien encounters, they may remember being
previously bonded together in one or more experiences.
Some abductees report spontaneous remote-viewing images of the intended
partner in such a way as to elicit emotions, such as jealousy, obsessive
love, yearning and grievous unrequited love pangs. The alien manipulated
love obsession process is akin to a carrot being dangled just enough to
get the obsessed lover into a constant cycle of love and unrequited love .
This may extend from relationship to relationship and is emotionally
In the vignettes that follow I will demonstrate what I believe to be
examples of alien-directed, human bonding and relationship manipulations .
In two of the cases a love obsession resulted, leaving one partner
emotionally devastated. In the other case a relationship manipulation took
place to prevent a specific love affair from continuing. Some names and
minor specifics have been changed to protect the clients' confidentiality.
Charles and Sara, both lifelong abductees, meet at a social event. The two
feel an instant sense of recognition and are attracted to one another.
They talk and exchange phone numbers so they can continue to correspond.
Charles has a strong romantic attraction to Sara even though Sara is
already happily married. Sara seems very familiar to Charles and he is
convinced he has had dreams and shared alien encounters with Sara before .
Charles distinctly remembers seeing Sara nude in an intimate dream-like
encounter where bonding took place. He was able to correctly identify
specific body marks on Sara that he could not have known otherwise.
Charles becomes infatuated with Sara, telephoning her several times a day.
He tells Sara of his alien experiences, claiming that the aliens set them
up together, pre-bonding them because they have "similar energetic
frequencies." Sara does not recall anything of this nature, nor does
she share romantic notions for Charles. Sara is however, baffled by
Charles' correct knowledge of her body marks and odd synchronicities that
have recently arisen between them.
Charles continues to have flashbacks of intimate contact with Sara and
even has future memories of them being together with a child of their own.
In fact, Charles believes that Sara's young child from her current
marriage may actually be his, and she doesn't know it. He becomes obsessed
and believes they have a special destiny together. Charles cannot take the
hint from Sara that she is not interested in him, and continues to call
Sara doesn't reciprocate love feelings for Charles and starts avoiding
him, leaving him crushed with unrequited love. The obsession has taken
hold and Charles does not give up hope that they will have a special love
relationship in the future. After all, this is what the aliens apparently
communicated to him and Charles wants to believe the extraterrestrials are
here for our own good.
Andrew, a 32-year-old single male abductee, has had difficulty maintaining
long term relationships with women. He fell in love with a beautiful,
affectionate woman named Sharon. Two months into the romantic relationship
a tall, tan, "Grey" alien and a shorter, dark alien in a hooded
cloak visited the sleeping couple. Andrew recalled the first part of the
abduction with the tan figure, but feelings of fear and foreboding
overcame him and the memory faded.
Sharon was seriously distraught and emotionally distant the next morning .
Later, Andrew discovered that the cloaked alien jabbed Sharon in the side
with a pointy, spear-like object as the entity warned her to stay away
from Andrew, leaving her petrified. Even though Sharon found a red
triangular mark on her body the next morning, she assumed it was just a
Less than two weeks later, Sharon no longer had amorous feelings for
Andrew and seemed to be "switched off." She soon broke off the
relationship, leaving Andrew grief stricken.
In the next couple of months the aliens revisited Andrew. In this
encounter he remembered graphic imagery of his girlfriend Sharon being a
"slut", having sexual relations with his best friend, making it
appear that his best friend cheated on him behind his back. This invoked
feelings of intense jealousy, rage and unrequited love for his
In another relationship of Andrew's the aliens again interfered. This
particular girlfriend, Ingrid, did not recall the alien visitation they
both shared one night. Andrew remembered the tall, tan aliens in the room
and saw Ingrid sitting up in bed, her face contorted in horror, frozen
into a silent scream. During this encounter, Andrew attempted to ask the
alien, "Why are you always interfering?" But within seconds of
his request, Andrew experienced intense pain and blacked out.
After the abduction, Ingrid abruptly changed her amicable attitude from
indifference to outright nastiness and the love affair suddenly ended.
Andrew's persistence at pressing the aliens for an answer was met with a
barrage of platitudes such as, "She wasn't one of us. You are one of
us. She wasn't necessary, not part of it. She doesn't understand us."
And the notorious, "You are not ready yet to know."
After both of these broken off relationships the aliens projected into
Andrew's mind seductive images of a beautiful, exotic Tahitian woman with
children, implying that this was Andrew's future wife and kids. The
understood message, according to Andrew, was, "If you stick with us
and so as we say, this is what we will give you." It never happened.
The aliens lied.
Today, Andrew is still single and distrusts the aliens for interfering in
his love life. Even so, Andrew maintains a positive and hopeful attitude
of overcoming these obstacles and has had some success in resisting
Sophia, a 33-year old married wife and mother was on a truth quest
concerning her lifelong alien encounters. Her husband George did not share
her spiritual interests or fascination with the UFO phenomena. George was
not an abductee and spent most of his time working long hours in his
career. His emotional coolness left Sophia lonely and wanting for a
companion who could understand. During Sophia's alien encounters George
seemed to be "out cold" or deathly unconscious. In any event, he
was conveniently out of town or unavailable.
When the couple's daughter turned two, she would awake screaming in terror
during the night and hide in her bedroom closet, "away from the
monsters." This sometimes happened on the same nights Sophia had
alien intruding "dreams." During these periods, the daughter
acted out with a lot of anger especially towards her father.
In the midst of Sophia's quest for an abduction therapist, Sophia met an
older man named Dave. Dave was also an abductee and happily married. When
the two met, Dave couldn't stop staring at Sophia as if he knew who she
was. Both exchanged business cards after briefly meeting at a UFO
conference and continued to correspond by telephone.
Sophia then recalled "déjà vu" type dream memories of having
been with Dave before in very intimate detail, years before met. She
became empathetically connected to Dave and had several dreams of him in
which she was able to pick up real information on Dave's personal life
that she had no way of knowing.
Dave started having spontaneous remote-viewing images of Sophia, which she
was able to confirm as true to detail. Sophia also had remote viewing
images of Dave, and intuitively knew things about him and his family,
which he confirmed also.
Sophia was in love with Dave and couldn't understand why she loved him so
much, as Dave was many years older than she and not really her type. The
two experienced a strong, spiritual and emotional connection with one
another as if they had known each other for years.
Sophia made plans to visit an abduction researcher and hypnotist but was
detracted from visiting the therapist following an encounter akin to a
virtual reality abduction involving military men. She became ill after the
threatening scenario and could not visit the therapist. One of Sophia's
main reasons for seeing the therapist was due to her overwhelming love
obsession with Dave.
Sophia called Dave often, initiating most of the communication. Soon, she
started to get the feeling he was trying to get rid of her, as he became
indifferent and uncaring. Even though Dave rarely called Sophia or
reciprocated her affections, she made excuses that he was just too busy
and really would be with her if he could. Wrong.
Dave was friendly and enjoyed Sophia's affections. But he was not in love
with her. It didn't seem to matter to Sophia, as she thought that perhaps
in the future they would end up together. After all, the syncronicities,
profound love and bonding they experienced must have been divinely
Two years later and with the help of an understanding abductions
therapist, Sophia's love obsession with Dave finally tapered off. It had
taken an enormous emotional and physical toll on Sophia and at one point
she became very ill. Part of the therapeutic process was for Sophia and
her husband George to undergo marital counseling, bringing to light the
awareness and effects of alien abductions, and avoiding emotional
isolation of one another.
Even though Sophia and George's marriage is still intact and improved, the
love obsession left Sophia very hurt. She loves her husband, yet admits
she is not as attracted to him anymore. Sophia's consolation is her faith
in God and helping others.
On the surface, these relationship problems appear to be easily explained
marriage and family issues. But as I got a closer look at a number of
abductees lives and interpersonal relationships, it made me wonder. The
psychological swamp gas theory was no longer palatable. There was
something real, possibly sinister going on beneath the veil of alien
contact in these people's lives.
It made me question what came first, the chicken or the egg? Are
dysfunctional relationship problems due to faulty coping mechanisms of the
individual's response to alien abductions-or have the aliens deliberately
contrived the family problems all along?
In my experience counseling abductees, one of the hallmarks of these
people's lives is the sense of emotional isolation and feeling
misunderstood. The pattern of emotional isolation may be an unconscious
behavior on the part of the abductee stemming from their own family of
origin issues. (In many cases the alien abductions are multigenerational
). The isolation can also be a pre-conditioned response installed into the
abductee by the aliens to keep them from talking. Or worse, it could be a
result of the aliens manipulating the lives of the abductees, closest
friends, lovers and family members.
In my professional opinion, all three factors are responsible for the
effects observed in these unique situations.
Some researchers believe that the human bonding relationships which result
in high drama and love obsessions may be instigated for purposes other
than the alien breeding and hybridisation program, as one may suspect at
first glance. (Although that is a factor that can't be ignored).
Barbara Bartholic, a hypnotherapist and abductions researcher of over 25
years, has studied and defined the love obsession phenomena down to a T.
"First," Barbara states, "the individuals are set up during
encounters from childhood for maximum emotional and sexual bonding. The
bonding process sets the stage for the drama of the love obsession. The
aliens are somehow able to harvest the energies emitted by the emotionally
charged persons. These emotions range from intense love, longing, passion,
rage, jealousy and anticipation of one's beloved." Ms. Bartholic
believes we are all affected by this phenomenon, not just abductees and
contactees. It is just that we only find out about this love obsession
phenomenon and all its associated life dramas through the ones who do
"The love obsession drama can be played out on a large scale as
well," Barbara adds. "This is incorporated through glamorous
public figures or super stars." The drama-directing aliens can use
the superstar images for massive unrequited love obsessions in the general
population. "In short," Barbara concludes, "it is like one
big human Nintendo game."
The key point here is the emotional energy derived through a series of
intense dramas and crises. As ludicrous as it may sound, the aliens seem
to feed off these emotional energies.
I've had several persons admit to me in
private that they had a higher frequency of alien encounters during the
more stressful and chaotic periods of their lives. As one of my support
group members has sarcastically described it, "The aliens have a way
of jerking my emotional chain, putting me through intense highs and
In the face of adversity there are some abductees who choose to learn from
every experience, whether good or ill. Sophia confessed in amazement,
"Once I decided to pursue in-depth research into my abductions, a
series of tests and trials assailed me, like going through a gauntlet of
Whatever the true reasons for the aliens' interference in our
relationships, we may never know, but from what some abductees have
reported, the effects are both devastating and exhilarating.
After surviving of the grievous effects of an alien contrived love
obsession, Sophia poetically stated, "Even though my experiences have
been incomprehensibly painful, I wouldn't trade them for any other. I
realized it was better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at
all." I marveled at her statement and could only imagine what the
aliens are missing. Life itself.